Geek Friendship Fallacies
Found this article while researching plurality stuff. It actually doesn't have anything to do with plurality- instead it's about toxic friendship norms in geek circles.
http://www.plausiblydeniable.com/opinion/gsf.html
And wow!
1. This used to apply to my circle of queer friends who met at my community college QSA and the Rainbow Community Center. To a T.
2. None of my friends do these things anymore, so... dare I say... have we grown up?