I've also gotten the "if you loved me you'd do (thing that violates my boundaries)", and when I get upset, "I'm just kidding lol, did you really think I was serious? You need to chill."
Like, no, please don't joke about my triggers. This person knew damn well I had trouble maintaining boundaries with people I loved. Then they would joke, and think that wasn't somehow manipulative.
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I've also gotten the "if you loved me you'd do (thing that violates my boundaries)", and when I get upset, "I'm just kidding lol, did you really think I was serious? You need to chill."
Like, no, please don't joke about my triggers. This person knew damn well I had trouble maintaining boundaries with people I loved. Then they would joke, and think that wasn't somehow manipulative.