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Can I watch the new cloverrss without having seen the previous one(s)?

TFW you realize how terrible your family has subtlety (because neoliberals) been over the years about gender and sexuality.

Family, neg 

@vahnj

Anyway, I'm sorry to dump on you like that!! I know that's a lot.

Family, neg 

@vahnj

I may come out to them as non-binary eventually.

It just took 4 times of coming out as queer over 4 years before they believed me on *that* front. Even now, they think I'm bisexual because I date both cis and trans women. It's super gross.

One of the times I came out to my Dad in high school, he told me, "but I'm sure some guys would date you" as though I was gay because I didn't have male attention.

Family, neg 

@vahnj Anyway, it's complicated but part of me REALLY wants to transition and be a guy, and the rest of me is okay being non-binary and not transitioning. The guy part comes to the surface a lot when I'm online, which is why I come across as entirely male a lot. But in reality part of me is SUPER identified with being a guy, and the rest is more fluid/NB.

Family, neg 

@vahnj Actually no, haha. I'm out to them about being queer and I've hinted heavily about being non-binary, but they get *super* weird any time I get close to mentioning that I feel like a boy sometimes (also, it's only sometimes, and I don't think they would understand what it means to be non-binary).

Honestly I'm probably more scared to come out to them because I might be wrong than I am to be right, if that makes sense. I want to be totally sure before I come out.

Family, neg 

@vahnj well I agree, but I get that and "don't worry, you're still feminine" from them all the time.

Like, I get it. You don't see me as a queer person, you see me as an ugly, confused woman with low self esteem. Not the first to think that.

Family, neg 

My androgyny is magickal and transformative, and the cishets in my family are just fucking cowards

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There's a whole lot of "x looks good on your brother but not on you because you're a girl" that goes on in my family and I hate it.

Dear Goddess Caffeina

Please give me the energy to entertain my 6 year old client for three hours tonight

And also to drive home

After which I will happily crash tf out

@mawr I know, right?! They're so goddamn weird and it's wonderful.

Lmfao saw a kid at school lying down on the pavement with his shoelaces tied together. Asked him if he was okay. He grinned and said he did it to himself.

CARRY ON, CHILD.

@thefishcrow@cybre.space @bunnylyn

*Pokes head briefly into convo* Ya sorry Crow, yr def a nerd

@erinbee

Ooh, sounds so relaxing!

Playing with someone else's hair is so flirty and fun~

How is everyone doing tonight? I want to offer snuggles to those who want them.

@erinbee

Oh yeah, it's a super gross and binarist app. Tbh my curiosity got the better of me and I wanted to see how I'd look as a guy. And then... Got this instead.

So apparently Facebook took a look at my profile pic and assumed I was a man. Interesting.

These are a result of the "what would you look like as the opposite sex" app (which is terrible, but also I was curious).

So here's me... As a woman?!

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