Family, neg
Anyway, I'm sorry to dump on you like that!! I know that's a lot.
Family, neg
I may come out to them as non-binary eventually.
It just took 4 times of coming out as queer over 4 years before they believed me on *that* front. Even now, they think I'm bisexual because I date both cis and trans women. It's super gross.
One of the times I came out to my Dad in high school, he told me, "but I'm sure some guys would date you" as though I was gay because I didn't have male attention.
Family, neg
@vahnj Anyway, it's complicated but part of me REALLY wants to transition and be a guy, and the rest of me is okay being non-binary and not transitioning. The guy part comes to the surface a lot when I'm online, which is why I come across as entirely male a lot. But in reality part of me is SUPER identified with being a guy, and the rest is more fluid/NB.
Family, neg
@vahnj Actually no, haha. I'm out to them about being queer and I've hinted heavily about being non-binary, but they get *super* weird any time I get close to mentioning that I feel like a boy sometimes (also, it's only sometimes, and I don't think they would understand what it means to be non-binary).
Honestly I'm probably more scared to come out to them because I might be wrong than I am to be right, if that makes sense. I want to be totally sure before I come out.
Family, neg
@vahnj well I agree, but I get that and "don't worry, you're still feminine" from them all the time.
Like, I get it. You don't see me as a queer person, you see me as an ugly, confused woman with low self esteem. Not the first to think that.
Family, neg
My androgyny is magickal and transformative, and the cishets in my family are just fucking cowards
@mawr I know, right?! They're so goddamn weird and it's wonderful.
@thefishcrow@cybre.space @bunnylyn
*Pokes head briefly into convo* Ya sorry Crow, yr def a nerd
It sounds extremely relaxing and that's my kinda shit
Oh yeah, it's a super gross and binarist app. Tbh my curiosity got the better of me and I wanted to see how I'd look as a guy. And then... Got this instead.
Hi I'm Sparrow! Queer kid-adventurer, sci fi/horror geek, wildlife enthusiast, & Witch. Enboi, they/them. T1d. Intersectional feminist. BT/special education aide.