re: mh, ?
@kistaro I know this feeling too goddamn well, to the point where it's enabled people to brutally abuse me and claim that no, THEY were the real victims all along because my requests to actually *talk* about a situation rather than constantly vacillating between groveling while being ignored and having the other party pretend nothing is wrong and gaslight me out of thinking anything ever was, rather than just, you know.
Walking away from toxic individuals regardless of how well-loved they are.