Missed you at the event (~) 

[after the event is over]
Them, to me: oh gosh I'm sorry we didn't get to meet up
My brain: their good time is not contingent on me, they had plenty of more fun things to do
Me: it's all good, maybe next year!

[after the event is over]
Me, to them: I'm sorry we didn't get to meet up
Them: it's all good, maybe next year!
My brain: I'm a sack of trash, I didn't make time for them, bet they think I'm some kind of asshole now

Missed you at the event (~) 

I don't know why my brain keeps thinking up ways everything is my fault, but that's the logic of least resistance, and it's juuuust plausible enough that it isn't really disputed

re: Missed you at the event (~) 

@Saxxon *hugs*

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