@jk "tamagotchi mode" is a perfect description of why I switched from Arch to Debian many years back. I inherited the very active "set everything up yourself" attitude from arch, but applied it to a distro that has stability. But I also don't run a full desktop (so i have no idea how broken stuff like icons is), and it didn't solve this problem, just mitigate it
@jk like rly I wish more stuff could just be statically linked and just have self contained executables that can run anywhere, but I appreciate that this is so fucking hard that we came up with a whole wrapper to set up a virtual filesystem to dynamically link shit in from to work around this.