Finding a Soul Mate 

All my life, I've been approached by people. Folks who obsessed over me, desired to be my soul mate. And time again, rejecting them has made these people do strange things and act out in ways that I've found unsettling.

I know most certainly, that if I am to find a soul mate, I will be the one to approach. With all the respect I can muster. If I'm rejected, I'll accept it gracefully. For they are an individual who's boundaries are to be acknowledged.

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Finding a Soul Mate 

@Roady_Dragonfae I have some... Thoughts about the "soul mate" thing, which are pretty extensive and boil down to: I hurt a lot of people and burned a lot of bridges looking for a SM, but it took me almost two decades and a Moment Of Truth to realize that the person I thought I'd "settled for" was really my soul mate after all. sometimes, a soul mate is *made*, not *discovered*.

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