We can reconcile our painful and unjust past, reckon with the systemic barriers it has placed on people of color, disabled Americans, LGBQTIA Americans, and do the hard work required to truly understand how to make a society in which all people are created equal.
But we have to be willing to face hard truths, make sacrifices, and commit to doing things that might be difficult for us.
Our ideals demand that we look outside ourselves and know we're not the only people in the world.
Being patriotic means being humble, having perspective.