Subtooting the Internet (Not You)
You don't understand everything.
You don't understand everyone.
Your lived experience is neither universal nor normative.
Your judgment isn't and can't be objective.
Your lived experience doesn't qualify you to pass judgment on other people's lived experiences.
You can, at best, compare your perceptions of others' public performances to your lived experience.
Only assholes treat their lived experiences as licence to pass judgment on others.
Don't be an asshole.