Bile
I will listen to those who want to explore their feelings. I will reify and validate their emotions. I will acknowledge their pain. I will sit in the fire with those who suffer to help them not feel alone.
Ask me to step into the flames and then attack someone else, and I'll call down the fucking heavens. I have little enough patience for people who can't draw a line between "I hurt" and "they hurt me." Less for those who can't separate "they hurt me" from "they're categorically bullies."