re: sex toy questions
@maxine @Kaffe@chitter.xyz Stick with silicone/glass/steel sorts (as general toy advice); There's debate over PVC toys and such, but anything 'jelly' is definite Avoid This territory.
There is a degree of 'get what you pay for' with that, but given the lack of regulation, there's also a degree of.. Not-that.
(Surprisingly I've found glass stuff doesn't ramp up pricewise compared to silicone/etc)
Oh, and if you get anything for anal, always make sure it has a wide base without any gentle-slope up to it.
('anchor' shaped bases are also good; Basically, anything that won't slip in by mistake)
Seconding the "start small" advice. (I have no experience with Twin Tail, so can't comment on their sizes; but generally applies)