transphobia + parent
today i declined to disclose if a friend of mine was transgender or not bc my parents always fucking ask me for some reason. i think that i came off as being hostile which is unsurprising to me because its kind of an invasive question and i was reacting to that. theyre both upset about this
transphobia + parent
i have told them if friends are trans or not in the past but only when i have explicit permission to. i explained that i would not tell them this information because it's sensitive information that's not my place to disclose and it's not hard to take cues from the name & pronouns im using but they act as if that is unreasonable and that i am withholding critical information
transphobia + parent
i can apologize for being more rude/hostile than necessary in explaining this but my pricklyness is in response to them being "like this."
transphobia + parent
gender therapist also appears to be mostly on their side. theyre not even really trying to understand why i cant just fucking disclose my friends genders or status as trans and they suck