gender
me, personally? my perspective on gender is that it's a social construct, something made up, but people can still take pieces from and enjoy it without being part of "gender" as we know it
i myself take pieces from it all the time because i have no frame of reference of knowing what modern society would be like with a neutral/third gender
...actually, maybe then, we should begin saying we'd like to destroy the idea of sex, instead? gender essentialism, is that what it's called?
because we gotta be better than that, because there's a lot of people who LIKE gender, but nobody likes being bound by gender's rules
"fire!! set fire to having coherent definitions of my queerness! i live in a futuristic time where nothing has to have a name to it, and i'm at peace with that"
@Felthry oh, i wish i felt the effects of caffeine anymore hahaha
i don't think it's the caffeine i'm addicted to; it's the sugar/sweetness of coca cola products + caffeine helps me have less migraines anyhow
zevia's been so good at getting me off my soda addiction, i mean, i guess i'm more addicted to zevia now but on a much milder scale than i was to soda
like... it tastes good... and is carbonated and caffeinated... and has no sugar to destroy my teeth and health WHICH IS GREAT
and an added benefit is that soda's slowly becoming unappetizing
@Felthry dangerous cat
lgbt thoughts
is it like, okay to call myself different labels as my romantic orientation/preferences shift over time
like maybe a couple years ago i was into Boy but now i like Girl more and ofc enbies also included regardless of my preference at the time
i'm demiromantic but i've mostly only had girl friends to this point so i dunno if i'd ever really crush on a boy
i uh... i guess i have to say enby lesbian bc otherwise people misgender me apparently :T
in response to the old "do i even like girls" comic: yes im enby lesbian but i don't have a crush on the girl in that comic anymore hahaha
oh, looks like i'm back to @scoliwings
see y'all later