re: selfshipping
also, trying to set up a selfshipping Discord server, but I keep going back and forth on it because I'm not really confident in putting myself in a moderator position again after all these years. It's not that I have doubt in my ability to moderate... I just don't like doing it. Mostly because all my prior experiences being put in that kind of position have left various degrees of bad tastes in my mouth.
But I would really like to create a little nook where, for once, I don't have to worry about how batshit a lot of Destiny selfshippers actually seem to be :x