I have a suspicion that a big part of the confusion here is I'm trying to jam my experiences into the typical plurality narratives I've been handed when my own stuff doesn't actually fit very well.
Okay though so I actually am probably plural and I have no idea what that actually means for me or how to make progress on understanding things. Several times in the last couple of years now, new folks have suddenly show up or take front unexpectedly, but even as I try to establish communication their presence fades in like a week. I don't know where to go from there.
@vahnj That's a little disappointing but I can see why, if they want to work like birdsite does. Part of the appeal though is, well, not working like birdsite does. At least here I have granular post-locking control -- that's actually one of the Masto features I'm especially excited about.
Once I actually make more friends here, private/unlisted posts can always be a thing though :)
A couple of topics I'd feel okay talking about here "publically" but only if I felt like they wouldn't risk being spread.
I know awoo.space only federates with whitelisted instances. Maybe that's enough? But mastadon.social is enormous and I don't trust it.
@MinUmbra irc, maybe?
@MinUmbra I feel like I know you from somewhere, ages ago? Name pings recognition somewhere deep in my brain.
@MinUmbra I am 100% down for happy queer smuts posting. And CWs being a thing here means people can go hard for that all the time without me having to split off a separate account to follow lewds. I can hide them if I'm having a sex-averse day or am in public or whatever. I'm so happy about that :)
@MinUmbra Sorry, didn't mean to be subtweeting you.
@Ramona engaging manual override of endocrine control systems, heck yeah.
Also very hecking transhumanist.
@MinUmbra I swear I wrote that not intending to refer to you and without knowing you post nudes here :D
And actually, what are your pronouns?
@tieflingjinx Soft boys are wonderful and the would should have more of them. Catboys especially :)
Lewd limerick
There once was a fur from awoo
Quite shamelessly lewd, through and through
Her body held proud
Would draw a great crowd
She'd post nudes in full public view
@MinUmbra oh I write that kind of limerick also :3
@gewt the feedback on the button isn't very good on tusky
Moving to @starkatt
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