re: death
@ctrlaltdog@chitter.xyz :T
it's easy to fixate on how much we missed in moments like this--when we look back at the things we prioritized, but i don't think that you should ever blame yourself for not spending more time doing anything you hadn't done
we're all doing our best, and that includes *you*! you did your best with the information and context you had, and if you can think now about things you would have done differently, that just means that you either know more now, or you have grown
i hope you feel better soon, bailey~