@cinnamon oh! sure!
basically, i identify as demi because while i don't really have an interest in sex itself, there are definitely things that i like very much that can kinda offset that
some of those things are kinks, but most of them are aesthetics
as a result, 99% of the time, i just kinda like passively being in kink aesthetic without actually interacting with it on any sexual level, but that changes when i imagine myself in a few mostly-nonsexual situations