it's been one month since the bad roommates left and, while things here at home are still a mess, it's amazing how much less of such it is
and also infuriating because it reveals just how bullshit some of their arguments were
just not having that inertia of "no, we refuse to contribute or help improve this place at all" has made such a huge fucking difference. it's incredible.
the most infuriating thing about it is how i just let myself get taken advantage of for months and months and months and years
@Xkeeper i'm glad you got out of that situation..!
it sounded like an absolute disaster, so i can barely imagine how much of a relief that must be
@thingywott the only bad part is realizing how much better things could have been (and wishing I had the energy to make them better *now* instead of having to do it slowly because my body is garbage)
things have been getting better and that's what matters