getting a bit grumpy
and dont even get me started on how people act about people who like or have done things that not everyone thinks are okay, and who haven't immediately and thoroughly apologized for them
idk. stop having knives at everyone's throats i guess.
ive devoted a lot of my energy while online to trying to find or foster good communities. i want to nurture those places - places like this little vague corner of mastodon - and help them shine, so that more people can have an internet experience that isn't characterized by constantly looking over your shoulder
there are a lot of really cool and weird and interesting things out there. i love neat little internet hideaways. so much chaotic creative energy on places like glorious trainwrecks. so much love and supportiveness in some of the discord servers im in. that's the internet i want and the internet that everyone deserves
maybe i should just be online less. but that's hard when that's where literally all my friends are