Crom boundaries 

been thinking about making a clearer guide of what i'm generally comfortable with

If we talk on a semi-regular basis here are things I am comfortable with:

Handshakes ✔
Hugs ✔
Smooches ❌
Pats ✔
Pets ❌
Cuddles ❌
Lewd Jokes ✔
Lewd Compliments ❌
Kink talk ✔

also very (VERY) light flirting is ok but please don't take it very far bc I get very uncomfortable very quickly

Crom boundaries 

If we're comfortable with one another: sometimes pets are ok, sometimes small snuggles are ok. It's hard for me to navigate :x

recounting bad flirt memory 

there was a guy who kept flirting with me when i was trying to deescalate because it was making me uncomfortable and at one point i outright say "hey you know i'm in a monogamous relationship right" and he got so offended he blocked me bc he took it as "you're being creepy"

please don't be that guy

Crom boundaries 

addendum:

Asking to be petted ✔

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