been thinking about making a clearer guide of what i'm generally comfortable with
If we talk on a semi-regular basis here are things I am comfortable with:
Handshakes ✔
Hugs ✔
Smooches ❌
Pats ✔
Pets ❌
Cuddles ❌
Lewd Jokes ✔
Lewd Compliments ❌
Kink talk ✔
also very (VERY) light flirting is ok but please don't take it very far bc I get very uncomfortable very quickly
recounting bad flirt memory
there was a guy who kept flirting with me when i was trying to deescalate because it was making me uncomfortable and at one point i outright say "hey you know i'm in a monogamous relationship right" and he got so offended he blocked me bc he took it as "you're being creepy"
please don't be that guy