nsfw furry social anxiety
gaahhh I wish I knew how to approach people with “you’re hot and we’re acquainted and we have a good set of Fetish Overlap and you have connections to a good specialty artist, would you want to commission something together if you did 90% of the coordination and I paid?” because, well, I guess the reasons are kinda obvious
re: nsfw furry social anxiety
@kistaro I know this feeling.... and then have some how found myself on the opposite side of it lately.
re: nsfw furry social anxiety
...probably because you’ve been getting a lot of Very Appealing things from Anima lately and it attracted attention from folks. Myself included, admittedly. >..>
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@kistaro True! The most recent thing was that sort of situation. That being said, Taranima is definitely one of the easiest to work with artists I've ever commissioned on top of doing... uh... "really good stuff".
Getting more organized about how commission art helped me get over a lot my anxiety around it. Aka I keep some lists of ideas and artists I want to get something from because 90% of the time I'd pass up on a slot from someone I wanted something from because I couldn't come up with an idea in the short time frame they were open.. or I'd get the slot... and be completely blank on ideas.. which made for a nasty anxiety feedback loop.
