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@SamIO actually i agree with my friend though; these would be terrible goals if they were my goals. but i recognize that these are emotional needs, and that i feel better when they're met.
i do set some goals that are intended to help with those needs over the long term -- but not all of my goals
the point my friend was making was mostly about the attractiveness one, that i'd keep chasing it, never feel satisfied, then watch as my body starts to disintegrate slowly over decades starting at like middle age or sth. and i completely agree and 100% believe that's gonna happen to me 👍👍👍👍 but i also see it as inevitable so i don't feel like there's much i could do. can i change my emotional needs? is that a thing people do?
