@mawr *hugs* It's okay, hun. I did think it was... hmm... champing at the bit a little? I think clearly you had noble intentions, but as per recent rant... incremental progress is your friend. :)
The hectoring to keep up with Our Movement's euphemism treadmill, to be brutally honest, can be exhausting even for people who sympathize 100%. And I think it's really important to distinguish "this doesn't represent this reality adequately" from "this is outright phobic." :(
Still here tho. <3