Relationships, uncertainty, general vent post.
I'm stressed, tired, dramatically short on sleep and about to fly away and drive for most a day to bring her back.
I'm horridly unsure if this is even a good idea or not.
Then comes appointments, because relaxing weekends are for *suckers*
I can't recall the last time I really *slept* to be honest.
Much less enjoyed a relaxed weekend.
And I've barely even dented all the unpacking.
And the world is falling the fuck apart.
I don't know any more.
Relationships, uncertainty, general vent post.
@IrisKalmia *hugs tight* I'm halfway to Arizona bringing Dakota stuff right now, and will then flip back and drive all the way back to San Jose on Monday and Tuesday, so I totally feel you on the exhaustion there. D:
Regarding relationships, I can't offer much advice, aside from hugs and noting that a good therapist can really help. Pretty sure without Zoe's (our therapist) guidance, we'd have split up in horrible shape ourselves. >.<
Relationships, uncertainty, general vent post.
@IrisKalmia If you want to know more of the back story on this, or just talk about burnout in general on telegram or anywhere else later, please, please ask.
Relationships, uncertainty, general vent post.
@IrisKalmia Actually, I lied. I have one piece of hard-learned advice. Rest. I was being burned out really, really bad at a job that later fired me for said burn-out at the start of 2014, and it was fucking destroying my health and relationship. Even if it means losing a job, you *have* to find a way to rest and recover. >.<
To give you an idea, I was off work for 3 weeks, and it still took me more than a year to really function again.