re: Horny, gender, furry
@Motodrachen I dunno if it's a result of being in furry stuff or not but we seem to view *presentation* as the thing that clues us in on gender, rather than genitals
and there's a whole lot of binary nonsense in that regard, even more than there is around genitals and stuff
i dunno where i'm really going with this. we just appreciate people with nonstandard presentations
-F