it's... really hard when some of our close friends have a falling out over something that happened years ago and that the ones who did the thing hadn't realized was even a problem.
i want to try to set things right. i don't know how, or if it's even possible -F
you ever have one of those days where you want to curl up and just not be awake, hope that the morning turns out to have just been a nightmare or something? -F
@Felthry Some things are just... not for you to fix. Adults can work problems out between themselves if they wish to.
Like, I don't know about your specific situation but you do have a tendency to feel responsible for fixing things. I understand WANTING to help, but... I don't know, you can't get involved in every problem ever. That's not healthy.
@Felthry You can certainly offer your emotional support like you would to any other friend in need, of course. Just... don't fall into the trap of thinking you need to "fix the situation", I'd say
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@Felthry You can certainly offer your emotional support like you would to any other friend in need, of course. Just... don't fall into the trap of thinking you need to "fix the situation", I'd say