realisation of own queer-care growth. (possibly triggering on reflection of past brainsparks) 

me, 2015: Is this character trans? I mean, I get they're masc but what if they're just an egg?

me, 2019: IS this character trans? He's cool and queer so he must be a trans dude.

Somewhere in there I went from the honestly kinda shitty take of "maybe I'm okay with trans dudes because they're still somewhat feminine" which like. Yeah ouch. Fuck that's a bad take and I know it.

I think it's more that I'm growing to be into ANYTHING not cishet, with just a femme bias.

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re: realisation of own queer-care growth. (possibly triggering on reflection of past brainsparks) 

@Draekos Tohri: This is more or less the logic as to why I've been something of a transmasculine hermaphrodite for the last fifteen years.

Like, it's okay to be masc as long as you're Really super not? I dunno, I got traumatized by normie guys and TERF aunts, the misandry runs deep in here.

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