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Tangential to this is this low-key desire to mention more that sometimes, although rarer, some abusive/manipulative people do call victims abusive because of the reactions of folks believing the victim (the abuser in this case)
But its like
Never a good time to say that
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This isnt a subtweet to anyone or anything, just me tired of edge cases i see harm innocent folks because people assume something is black or white