@starkatt @shoofle @starryblush@witches.town @typhlosion The best definitions I've found for both tend to be in the DOING; you can tell when someone's 'doing furry stuff' without having words for it exactly. You can say stuff like "it's an anthropomorphic animal, and it's being handled in a way that is *waves hands vaguely* so it's furry." And that means it's basically a social-context definition, and THAT means the subject is fraught and awkward in a ton of different ways.