queer community + sex
I've seen this around a few places and I figure it's worth being explicit about:
You **do not** need to have sex with me or do kinky things with me or cuddle with me to be my friend. I promise, I won't think of you as less good because you say "no".
I do want to be clear though, I _am_ a sexual being and I _am_ a very kinky person, and both of those are big parts of me, and I don't think they can be fundamentally fully separated from my identity. Everything intersects.
queer community + sex
@tastymochafox This sums up my feelings on the matter as well. And probably Rosemary's too, as I understand it.