@vahnj My sibling's account @fairywren appears to have been deleted/blocked but we have no idea why. Do you know what's going on with that?
@Krall I got tired of having to continually explain myself to them and getting my words twisted with no actual trust involved in handling a situation that went on for two weeks. Instead of any amount of self care they continually watched the person they had a problem with, lied to me about it in order to not look bad, and joked that my taking my admin duties seriously and thoroughly were obsessive after i used the same language to describe an unhealthy habit watching the person.
@Krall This ultimately was Stressful enough for me throughout that I was triggered three times because of their continual attempts to argue over what's reasonable or not while also micromanaging how I resolved the situation they brought up.
I can't accommodate that kind of argumentative approach to dealing with my moderation. I have only so much time an be spoons and we wrote a light novel together trying to accommodate them. I can't commit myself to them any more
@Krall I'm sorry that will likely mean you want to leave and I'm sorry for my missteps along the way but they ran me ragged and continuously dragged me the whole time when all I did was urge them to practice self care for stuff that was obviously distressing.