But OTOH, radfems really don't take well to me pointing out that "#NotAllMen" really fucks over people on the enby spectrum, by denying men are capable of feminine (or even *responsible* behavior), and forbidding us to talk openly about the exceptions.

I can't count the number of "not-trans-enough" friends who have been terrified back into hiding by this kind of heartless, dogmatic thought-terminating cliche bullshit.

#NotAllMen is now grounds for block.

Clarification:

*Defending* #NotAllMen is not grounds for blockade.

Defending #NotAllMen is grounds for me cruelly mocking the irony of your defense with the hashtag #NotAllNotAllMen.

If I don't get to say, "No, seriously, my experiences have been NOTHING like what you describe, and there do seem to be a lot of these cases, whether you like it or not," then neither do you.

I mean, FFS, the very first day I saw that tag in use -- despite being in total sympathy with people trying to point out the huge, virulent flaws in modern masculinity -- I thought, "Wow, this is sure gonna get misused."

But I didn't hate it, nor you for spreading that kind of tactic, until I saw it mutate into #NotAllVegans, just to shut down some poor kid trying to fight stereotypes of _their_ group.

No. Fuck that. Bad meme. No more of this bullshit.