caregiver fatigue
@smallesttiger You have all my sympathies – I've been stuck in this for a long time, both as someone who needs (what feels like) a lot of support and has spent a very long time trying to provide (what feels like) a lot of support to others.
The hrdest lesson I had to learn last year was this: Setting realistic boundaries to maintain one's health isn't a failure state, but possibly the most critical success.
Rule of triage: The first pulse you check is your own.