re: the cw stuff
so after talking with @Hi_cial@snouts.online and another friend (who i think would rather stay anonymous) about this, and taking a while to eat lunch and take a break, i think i've come to realize that I was in the wrong, and also that the things we would want CW'd (i.e. details about violence and/or death) are in fact getting CW'd anyway--the stuff people are talking about is in fact just whether black people should be expected to cw their experiences as black people, which is never what we wanted a cw for
anyone else who wants to is welcome to read the discussion below, I feel like Cial explained pretty well where I was wrong and maybe reading his stuff would help others understand too
re: the cw stuff
@BatElite oh it looks like he posted followers-only
re: the cw stuff
@Felthry Well that's one of the most unfortunate misunderstandings of the century.
(Also I don't see Cial in there, did you mean Packbat?)