interpersonal -, mh - 

it's... really hard when some of our close friends have a falling out over something that happened years ago and that the ones who did the thing hadn't realized was even a problem.

i want to try to set things right. i don't know how, or if it's even possible
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re: interpersonal -, mh - 

you ever have one of those days where you want to curl up and just not be awake, hope that the morning turns out to have just been a nightmare or something?
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re: interpersonal -, mh - 

i just. want to make things right.

i hadn't realized how deep of a problem this was and has been for years, though we really should have seen it

i want to fix things, and i don't know how.
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re: interpersonal -, mh - 

in case anyone is worried about this, i will state that everyone involved in this knows about it, so this isn't about you if you don't know the specific incident i'm talking about that happened this morning/last night
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re: interpersonal -, mh - 

@Felthry So, not knowing any specifics, I helped two friends of mine deal with pretty much exactly this. One hurt the other but had no idea they'd done anything wrong til I brought it up. As they'd been avoiding each other because of what happened, it took me suggesting to both of them to just sit down and talk about what happened.

I have no idea if this helps you any or not. Sorry in advance if not.

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