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I'm so tired of being back in the closet at home. How the hell do you even go back into the closet with the same people???? Anyone else have people suddenly "forget" you were ever trans, despite living with you the whole time? Ugggh
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@Fuego I feel a little guilty because I ended up letting it slide pretty much every time, especially since I meant for myself to remain closeted to the community at large. But I guess it's better late than never to get after them for their backsliding. And, it isn't my fault that they backslid in the first place! They're culpable.
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@FragileVal I don't think it's your fault, but if you think they don't mean it maliciously, its def worth having a sit down to re-establish the situation and making it clear what it means to respect you for you <3
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@FragileVal yes. I reminded them every damned day for 4 years. Non stop. Argued ever misgender. Every deadname. It was terrible and exhausting. But they tired out before I did in he end.