@starkatt I never got that impression with you, personally. But I also share this worry for myself sometimes!
@starkatt I mean, I can't honestly say that that couldn't have effected me, except for how you didn't have this avatar when I first saw you? Plus I tend to personally typecast anyone who doesn't have a boy for an avatar as a girl or enby friend here on mastodon. I'm probably a bad metric, honestly...