Reminder that being non-binary doesn't mean that you have to be right in the middle of the male/female paradigm, you can present as more masculine and be NB, and you can present as more feminine and also be NB, and you can present as something completely different and be NB. You can also present as gender ambiguous and be NB, fulfilling the stereotype.
You don't owe anybody an androgynous presentation for being NB. You are valid just the way you are.
@Motodrachen That is also valid, it's all about picking aspects of internal and external identity that you are comfortable with.