PSA for trans folks. 

SUPPORT PEOPLE WHO DETRANSITION.

As a member of a community that would prefer this anomaly does not exist, YOU HAVE A MORAL OBLIGATION TO CARE.

Just because it makes TERFs feel validated doesn't erase their humanity. Yes it's extremely rare, but it happens.

Detransitioning sucks. You lose the trans community, and there's not a lot of places to turn. Actually consider the sheer self doubt.

Seriously.If you ever meet someone in this situation: HELP. We need to be better.

PSA for trans folks. 

I think a major part of this problem is that it's rare enough to encourage the bystander effect. If someone wants to revert, they're likely going to feel like a "traitor" and they're definitely gonna be treated like one if they're vocal. I beg you to go the extra mile and ASK if they're okay. Like, how would they know you're safe to talk to?

PSA for trans folks. 

Anyway, I don't mean to rant. This feels like a situation in which it needed to be said. I honestly think the community just needs to be aware.

Speaking of: please respect their identity. I know that sounds silly, but there seems to be(?) a tendency to assume they're only doing it because they're scared or something. That's not your call, and if you don't consider it "real", you're not helping. I get how this can happen, just be mindful.

I KNOW we can be better.

ps to: PSA for trans folks. 

uh honestly, like, if you asked me for citations? Only two folks I'd previously known, and a few folks they directed me to, cause I was surprised this was an issue (though it feels obvious in hindsight) and wanted to know more.

im obviously not an expert, here, and i don't want to speak for them. but it's like a tiny voiceless group, so i felt it was worth passing along. If you've lived this and feel this was handled poorly, please DM me and I'll delete or fix.

re: ps to: PSA for trans folks. 

@heatherhorns My view on detransitioners is this; They have my full support, until they start getting into bed with TERFs and transphobes.

re: ps to: PSA for trans folks. 

@FreyaManibrandr i suppose thats true of anyone, though

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