Question for plurals.
How normal is it to have a crush on and potentially date your headmates?
@FreyaManibrandr echoing what folks have said: it's pretty common and totally okay! it can get kind of Complicated but that is just like both regular plurality and regular dating, so that's not a reason not to build a life together in that way 💖 (a bunch of us are in internal relationships, it's kind of crucial to how we're structured these days tbh)
@FreyaManibrandr Rose and I were in a relationship for a little bit, but not anymore
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@Felthry nods Here's hoping that experience gave you a better understanding of each other?
@FreyaManibrandr I guess I'll add that while I don't exactly know how normal it is, the responses here are quite reassuring, as I'm currently dating Jade, my headmate (and Miles, who only turns up occasionally, but is also one of my headmate).