Sex, kinks, respect, and Midwestern passive-aggression(-)
@salameleon I would treat it as "an unfortunate confluence of events" and politely never bring it up again or engage with them on any sexual matters ever. That may not be a right response, though.
Sex, kinks, and respect (-)
@salameleon sounds like an awkward failure of the meme. Boundaries are appropriate to set but policing someone else's fantasies seems wrong. So what so you do when they have created a window to share them without context or scope, and so you get an honest view into something you'd rather not know about?
The prudent thing would have been a "sorry, it was something you aren't into", but then that sort of self-censorship is exactly what that thing isn't for.
food packaging fail
How to fail at marketing:
"Better than cream cheese? NO."
kink musings
Aaagh why are my fetishes so fundamentally weird and arbitrary @..@
I mean, my interest in dragons feels totally normal to me, but the latex, plastic, inflation, size-queen-to-the-point-of-flagrant-impossibility, goo, balloons, etc. still seem arbitrary and undignified. The submissive streak and slight masochism makes a little more sense at least.
Most l of my interests are tactile or imagined-tactile. I'm very touch-centric. It still seems weird that I'm fixated on these things
$12 for Civ 6 at https://www.humblebundle.com/monthly - worth signing up, installing it, and cancelling the subscription for, IMO, for folks who don't already have Civ 6.
I'm sorry I didn't build enough housing in @KawaSeadrake but I'm building a granary now, I promise https://awoo.space/media/WFHB_CJqCTqmlwUv2rs
university, programming languages (-)
@KawaSeadrake @lizardsquid Yep, C is mostly used for embedded systems programming these days. C++ is a train wreck that is mostly used for performance sensitive systems where programmers believe they can out-optimize a garbage collected language without accidentally shooting themselves in the feet, which they are usually wrong about.
C is probably the purest way to learn (painfully) about pointers and the consequences of mishandling them.
At least I'll have my PS4 back in about a minute. It's almost done restoring from backup onto the SSD I just put in it.
https://awoo.space/media/ZX-3Ou2n3LHyjSr_DFU
@Jacel I love you very much. Travel safe.
@Jacel If you were Seattle, you can believe I'd be riding your Space Needle a lot more.
@Jacel Yourself?
And now back to the most of the year where I spend a lot of my time wishing @Jacel was here. I'll need help but I'll keep fighting my depression and anxiety, and Jacel will be back and I'll be able to share that with hir.
@Jacel You'll be back.
Please, can everyone in the software world can read that again and again and again.
@wobblewuffess Excellent maternity plan, at least
Chameleonic dragon. Otherkin. Some kind of eclectic neo-Pagan. Sie/hir or they/them. Software engineer. Seattle-esque, WA. Expect software takes, complaints about the tech industry, board games, video games, an inexplicably obsession with paper notebooks despite my handwriting, and Weird Furry Stuff.