re: Horny, dildo, temperature play
@Cilich This sounds like one of those 'Don't lick the flagpole' kinda things.
Male and Female has special meaning for us, we're finding out, because for Us, it's a Headspace. A way of Looking at the world and feeling about it.
So it makes for weird combo places where I'll be in a Very male headspace even though everything else is Femme right now. Like even brain Chemistry. So we've had to set up a couple Imaginary Genders as placeholders for now.
This also explains why I've felt Transmasculine so much..
re: Sex/Gender gripe
@sabby Took us over a year once we knew what was happening to figure out why we are the way we are. And it takes a lotta brutal honesty and introspection and acceptance.
re: Sex/Gender gripe
@sabby It's just that I kinda realized that the most obvious time my DID really kicks up is when I have to talk to a Boomer Man.
Kerithe will chat ANY woman up, anytime. Men just get tohri's body language, terse sentences and introversion.
That, and like... I'm Good at traditionally male things and a lotta my friends Aren't. But it is nice to have gay gearhead friends.
Sex/Gender gripe
Tohri: I'm realizing that part of the reason I can't shake that feeling of being Male is because I'm like... The only one of my friends who can really do the Dom Top Thing.
And so it's like being the one good at running the Grill or changing tires. I just end up the Designated Male for Male Things.
@Felthry My younger brothers are Twins, and they were born on 2/2 at 2:21 and 2:22...
And my Youngest brother is a dutch angel dragon born on Friday 13'th... And my mom was born on February 29...
@Felthry Well, Funny... Yaori Does speak Dovahzul...
@Felthry Don't get me started on Numerology, I was born on 11/11 at 11AM, 66 years after the last shell fell in WW1.
re: lewd, gender adjacent
@fructose_dealer The Cock of the Soul is unrelated to the Physical Plane.
Besides, anatomically speaking it's still there.
re: plural stuff, identity
@sabby Tohri: Actually the Depression comes from not everyone sharing the cognitive load. I had a lotta that bordering on suicidal, and it was just that I was So Tired and couldn't unclench and just Rest in the subconscious for a while.
I was kinda reduced to a head in a Jar for most of winter.
Southern Mass's local machine healer and part time witchdoctor.
Tiny motorcycles, magic potions, machine tools, progressive rock, trance states, and hand sharpened drill bits. Oh, and I read Tarot. Probably 18+ just to be sure.
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