i'm really sad that my hrt dosage has fucked up my sex drive rly bad

i just had a cute girl over and we did everything but penetrative sex because i couldn't stay hard enough to get started and like

this was never the case pre-hrt or even before my dosage was bumped up to what it is now (300mg spiro, 4mg estradiol, used to be 100mg spiro and 3mg estradiol) and it Sucks

@Ramona

I had to use oral sex a lot *prior* to HRT just to get aroused.

The ability to be erect really does fade with time and dosage.

After a few years... it's gone... and orgasms get amazingly better

@ThatDamnCat also by the end part, did you mean that like, your erections are gone but you're having rly good orgasms? or did i read that wrong

@Ramona

I've been on HRT for 13 years. My erections are long gone, though I can sometimes feel... a "filling" sensation of arousal... and it's way more intense.

Additionally, the orgasms are more powerful, don't come with guilt after, and I've gone up to 10 orgasms in a row.

I personally like it way better than before HRT

@ThatDamnCat but yeah!!! even a year on HRT, orgasms are a LOT better (they're very full-body instead of just sort of centralised which is still wild to me but i love it) but it also takes me a bit to reach orgasm