@girl We default to they/them for people whose pronouns we don't know, or have forgotten. I hope we haven't ever accidentally offended by doing so, and apologize if we have. I don't think we've spoken much, though.
@Rosemary check ppls bios before you do that.
@Rosemary It's not always a context where you can check someone's bio.
As all conversations aren't on here. :)
@Rosemary @maloki check the bio first, and if you cant find pronouns, and there isnt any context, THEN default to they/them