I hear new people noting how chill, tolerant, and pleasant Mastodon is.
Mastodon isn’t chill or tolerant or pleasant. It’s a tool… a foundation on which to create and maintain a culture.
It’s those who’ve been on Mastodon, run servers, and served as admins who did the hard work and created the culture you now enjoy.
Now, it’s your turn. The only way it stays tolerant and chill is by us doing the work to keep it that way.
A good example of, “Be the change you wish to see in the world.”
cw: christmas song with dubious sexual consent
"Baby It's Cold Outside" is of course a controversial song given that it's either lost its original context about making flimsy excuses for polite society about sleeping over at someone's place, or that it's just icky as hell with overtones of manufacturing pseudoconsent via pharmaceutical aids and continuously ignoring boundaries.
Regardless of your interpretation on that issue (I know what side I'm on), I think we can all pretty much agree that it's also *just a bad song in general*.
I'll explain this quickly because I've been asked about it a couple of times today:
Mastodon has no ads. Its only source of funding is donations.
You could donate to the open source project itself – a fine thing to do. But at the moment, with the huge influx of new users, the funding is better off going to the instance you are using.
Each instance usually publishes a donate/patreon/crowdfunder/etc link. If you go to
[your instance url]/about
you should find information about it.
I counted chickens before they hatched.
I'd hear hens brooding, and a number would pop to mind. I was never wrong.
"Thirteen," I informed my friend.
My friend blinked, "But there's only twelve eggs!"
I sighed, accepting my abilities had left me.
A week later, my friend came running to my door.
"You weren't exactly wrong!"
In their cupped hands was a chick, more scales than fluff.
My first of what would eventually be many cockatrices.
Class Action Lawsuit for Seattle Renters
"Do you or did you since 2016 rent a Seattle apartment maintained by one of the following companies: Greystar, Trammell Crow Residential, Avenue5, Equity, Essex, FPI, Lincoln, Security Properties, AvalonBay or Thrive?"
If so, you can join a class action lawsuit against these companies for rent fixing.
https://www.hbsslaw.com/cases/washington-rent-price-fixing-scheme
Anti-anxiety meds are the weirdest fucking thing, because I feel the start of the anxiety surge and then it's like it just hit a big sheet of plexiglass and is just smooshing itself against it but can't get through.
It's clearly still HAPPENING, but instead of taking over my brain completely I'm just kind of watching it going "shouldn't you be hitting harder?"
@Phorm Phorm, I found a thing and it distresses me. First I found out about Fluoroantimonic acid and that wasn't okay at all. And then I found out that there was something worse that reacts with literally anything that is matter, and that was even less okay because apparently HeH+ is something that you can actually have? Like, not for long, but, you can have it until it touches something else.
Why. Why is that allowed.
How UX apathy leads to corporate capture
"No, $software is fine, users just need to learn how to use it"
"That's a stupid feature, nobody should ever need that"
If you've spent any amount of time in FOSS circles, you've probably seen sentiments like that all over the place. Unfortunately, they're a big part of why dubious corporations (eg. Microsoft, Google, etc.) have been able to co-opt the FOSS community.
Why? Because regardless of what you, as a technical FOSS person, believe is "necessary"... users are not going to care about that. They have certain expectations from their software in terms of feature set and ease-of-use.
Either you meet those expectations, or users go elsewhere.
Now, "it's FOSS, it gives you freedom" can sway that decision *somewhat*, but it only gets you so far. Most people care more about getting their stuff done, than they care about (to them) abstract ideals of "freedom".
And because of that, you're setting yourself up to be vulnerable to corporate capture - because corporations can superficially *claim* to do FOSS, but provide an actually accessible user experience, and suddenly everybody flocks to the corporate thing.
And sure, corporate FOSS has real problems compared to community-run FOSS. But understanding that requires a degree of nuance that most people won't see, and that you frankly cannot expect from people for whom FOSS isn't their whole existence. It's specialized knowledge.
Which boils down to a very simple reality: either *you* provide the UX that users want, or a corporation will do it for you, and with none of the community governance and long-term sustainability. Those are the options.
A great example of this is systemd; yes, it has plenty of problems. But because of the widespread insistence in FOSS circles that "nobody needs more than SysVinit", everybody flocked to an actually usable alternative the moment it appeared, monolithic design and corporate governance be damned.
Don't be that person. Listen to users about their needs. Take complaints about UX and accessibility seriously. If you don't, then you're not helping FOSS; you're harming it.
friend now homeless, Bothel WA USA, plz help
The main part of his story and situation is on his GoFundMe which is located here: https://www.gofundme.com/f/hi-i-got-wrecked-by-my-evil-roommates
Despite the GoFundMe, it didn't work out and so he is now homeless and looking for help. Can you help? Please do!
Rare coastal dragoness, often found by sunny sea cliffs. Nonbinary but fairly femme-leaning. If you're under 18 don't follow.