Sparrow 🐦 @Sparrow@awoo.space
Hi I'm Sparrow! Queer kid-adventurer, sci fi/horror geek, wildlife enthusiast, & Witch. Enboi, they/them. T1d. Intersectional feminist. BT/special education aide.
Joined Feb 2017
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That might be good!
I've liked every Dante I've ever met, fwiw.
I don't have IRC and never used it much when I did, but *shrug* maybe I'll reinstall one of these days.
@binglinhu@mastodon.art
Whoa that is a lovely character, and the outfit they're wearing is fantastic, too!
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Thank you, I appreciate this. I'm also entertained by the way you phrased it. :P 💚
@mimtschan@witches.town
Exciting!! Have a fun time~! :D
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@catoutofbed@octodon.social
YUP.
He's also the:
1) First guy I ever kissed (*reeeally underwhelming, lemme tell ya*)
2) Currently dating my first ever girlfriend
3) Someone I haven't spoken to in about 5 years, no regrets
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Thank you <3
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@catoutofbed@octodon.social
Right???! It's super weird. But, he also has a lot of issues of his own. Part of them being dick-related. (He told me at some point that "he wasn't gay, but was attracted to dicks" which may explain why he's cool with them on girls??)
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*Nods* I believe you.
Sometimes I think I should make a few more trans masc friends just so I have people to commiserate with about this & remind me about how guyish someone with my approximate genital configuration can be.
Sparrow is still good. I'm flirting with the idea of plurality (Toby/Danika seem to be my main fronts, with Spencer as my "where all the sex and violence I couldn't let myself feel went")
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@catoutofbed@octodon.social
No, they definitely don't. I've known plenty of girls with totally girly dicks, fwiw!
But yeah. Totally possible to be a guyish person without one as well.
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@catoutofbed@octodon.social
Yeah, I know. Like, I *almost* would have understood if he'd been like "oh no girls can't have dicks". Because that would be an awful way of thinking, but at least one with internal logical consistency? But no, girls can have dicks (fine) and guys *must* have them. What????
But yeah, thank you for the reminder. <3
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@clairec@chitter.xyz
Be my guest. I have no idea where he's living these days, but it's somewhere in the silicon valley being a techbro. Naturally.
And thank you. Like, intellectually I know this. I just get insecure sometimes.
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Anyway, will someone please remind me that it's okay to be a person who doesn't have a dick? And that I'm still possibly attractive without one?
I'm not 100% guy (I consider myself to be 2/3 male, 1/3 female) but even so.
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I once had a (former) friend tell me that he thought having a dick was what determined if you were a guy or not.
"I know plenty of girls with dicks," I pointed out.
"Oh, sure, a girl can have a dick. But it's *having one* that determines if you're a guy. You can't have a vagina and be a guy."
And intellectually I know he's wrong but sometimes I get inside my own head and think this way, and it makes me feel like I can't ever be a guy without one.
Genitals
I get insecure a lot about not having a dick.
@denidimochka@mastodon.art
I've only seen elderly women do this
Wowowowowow *stares intently*
@galaxgal@dev.glitch.social @Efi
R E A L
Well I've spent this week at my parent's and working with more special needs kids than usual.
It's been okay, but I really miss being around queer adults.
GIMME THE GAYZ.
Executive function processes
Summarized in a handy table.
Metacognition is fun. ✨
I'm reading about executive dysfunction, and realizing that while I've historically had difficulties in some avenues (mainly prioritisation), that I've been relatively competent in others (planning, organizing, working memory). Interesting!
Hi I'm Sparrow! Queer kid-adventurer, sci fi/horror geek, wildlife enthusiast, & Witch. Enboi, they/them. T1d. Intersectional feminist. BT/special education aide.
Joined Feb 2017
