@trysdyn haven't had any problem like this with you specifically since we didn't start following each other until after our instances started federating I'm pretty sure, but it may be a good idea for folks you tried to talk to prior to that!
@trysdyn Gosh, I'm flattered. 💙
I actually had to do some under the hood hacking to get my instance to completely forget I ever followed them to get it to work-- but that's Pleroma. :P
Mastodon just required an un/re follow.