subtoot about serial harasser who can't read this (--)
Honey, you can cry about being stifled by "civility culture" all you want, but it's not going to change the fact you -keep- viciously attacking people over the smallest, most insignificant shit imaginable, and people have been telling you to knock this nonsense off for literal years now.
You're in your fucking forties. Act the part. That or do everyone a favor and leave the fediverse already like you keep saying you will.
re: subtoot about serial harasser who can't read this (--)
@Thaminga If this is the same person I think you're talking about... gimme a fuckin' break. *headdesk* I DRAMATICALLY overestimated how redeemable this individual is. This is just getting crazier and crazier.
re: subtoot about serial harasser who can't read this (--)
@zebratron2084 Yuuuup, you win the grand prize!
It's... disappointment.
re: subtoot about serial harasser who can't read this (--)
@Thaminga I'm so delighted for them that they've found another buzzword that will spare them any actual responsibility for their actions. I DEEPLY regret having spent any time trying to find something better in there.
re: subtoot about serial harasser who can't read this (--)
Is this the person using “multiple system” as an excuse, the person using “aspie” as an excuse, or someone I don’t know?
re: subtoot about serial harasser who can't read this (--)
@anthracite @zebratron2084 The person using "multiple system" as an excuse, along with "I don't know what I did wrong!" in spite of a wealth of logs and personal accounts of terrible behavior going back years.
re: subtoot about serial harasser who can't read this (--)
Ah, suspected as much.
re: subtoot about serial harasser who can't read this (--)
@Thaminga @anthracite Oh for fuck's sake. I don't get how "civility culture" ties into this anyhow, since being civil to them in the hopes of dredging something decent and non-abusive out of them was obviously my biggest fucking mistake. >_<
I still can't believe they popped up AGAIN in YET another identity after I told them in no uncertai... wait, no. I can. I really should have gotten the full story from the people they hurt and just broken contact with them.
I... I thought I saw something in there worth trying to save. There might even still be, but they're that something's own worst enemy.
re: subtoot about serial harasser who can't read this (--)
@zebratron2084 @Thaminga who tf is this person so I can stay ~farther~ away from them?
re: oh boy, the fucker is stalking me now, rape mention re: subtoot about serial harasser who can't read this (--)
@Thaminga Yup. Every time I tried to pull away, they guilt-tripped and gaslit the fuck out of me in ways that I am very vulnerable to. And I kept convincing myself that I was the bad one for having issues.
I was far kinder to this person than they ever deserved, in the hopes they could somehow be brought back from the brink if someone showed them a little understanding—and, to be honest, because I knew what a cavalcade of guilt and complaint I'd get if I cut them off—or even so much as mentioned my concerns about their behavior.
And I got stabbed good and hard in the back for it, because I had the nerve to finally voice my concerns about them, and because I had the nerve to speak up in defense of what I created when they decided to demonize it. Which I deserved, because I really should have just gotten the full story from the people they'd hurt and chucked them into the sun.
I wasn't even involved. I basically got told in no uncertain terms that they didn't care that I was collateral damage... and they've since had the fucking gall to act like it was unreasonable of *me* not to want to speak to them again.
I am absolutely mind-blown at how they can still be casting themselves as a victim in all this, but it sure as fuck explains a lot of things in the past. No fucking comprehension or concern for other people's boundaries at all.
So yeah, add me to the "tell them to get the fuck out of here" list.
oh boy, the fucker is stalking me now, rape mention re: subtoot about serial harasser who can't read this (--)
*applause*
oh boy, the fucker is stalking me now, rape mention re: subtoot about serial harasser who can't read this (--)
Oh, you wanna have a go? You want to read my posts (or have someone circumvent my blocks for you, like a coward!) in spite of the fact I've repeatedly made it *abundantly* clear to you that you're persona non grata around me?
Sure.
Listen here, you abusive, rapist piece of shit.
Lay off your bullshit false victimhood narrative already. The only reason you are like this is because you are, YEARS after the fact, still utterly obsessed about postfurry to the point where you've made up all sorts of delusions in your mind about what's at the end of the day yet another social scene. You weren't ousted from there because of some ~secret cabal revolving around Indi~, you weren't ~canceled because you dared question the order of things~, you were thrown out because. You. Raped. Someone.
The only reason anyone even works with you at this point still is because you've managed to successfully DARVO them into thinking you're somehow the actual victim here, even as you continually stalk and attack the many people you've hurt before, along with anyone who dares hold you accountable for that. You are no different from any of the many, MANY other abusive shitheads I've had to suffer in my life, the only thing that stands out about you in particular is just how -exquistely- entitled and deliberately ignorant of your own repeated attacks on others you are.
Is postfurry perfect? Not in the slightest. Neither is the fediverse, even! But pushing out individuals like you who think they can fucking sexually assault someone, then come back like nothing happened and CONTINUE acting like utter shitheads (even after getting a second chance that you rightfully should NEVER have gotten after something like THAT)? Honey that's nothing but a positive for the both of them.
Eat shit, and get the fuck out of here. You should be rotting in prison, not acting like a maladjusted teenager on the goddamn internet.