Gender griping
@KawaSeadrake Oh yeah, definitely!
I know I'm never the first to learn such things, but recent experience is something I will always try to share. I've found you can never know how much even saying 'Oh yeah, I experienced that' helps someone else.
Sometimes it veers a /little/ close to trying to sound like I empathize with everything everywhere... I'm trying to also get better at saying 'no, that's a very different experience, I can't offer much there'.
Gender griping
@KawaSeadrake But your enbyness is... pretty similar to mine, so. :-}