Gender stuff
So yeah, been having some difficult feelings of my own lately, relating to my fractally-weird preference for (heavily-queered) masculinity both in myself and my partners. And writing it out like that doesn't even sound right, it's one of those frustrating 'this makes sense in my head but doesn't come out in words' things.
@KawaSeadrake I was literally scrolling through my feed here working up the courage to make a post like this myself. XD Now I feel awkward again because you just did. XD
@vahnj Oh dang yeah forgot to change that part. ^.^;
Mood: Sad and gay (h/t @vahnj ;))
Late Night Introspecting
@KoBunny Sadly I know a lot of folks who feel that way. I think the best cure is exposure therapy. So you will be getting more complements. And, I hope, more time around me, if we can manage it. 💜
Late Night Introspecting
@KoBunny OMG so okay, when I say "it is always lovely to see you" I mean that SO MUCH for like YOU IN PARTICULAR. I never get to see you enough and that's why I just drop by the store sometimes because you're greeeat and I like having you arouuuund.
@KoBunny I don't know, my body was like "You need to put that in your mouth. No wait, dip it in that first!"
I can't explain these meat bodies, I'm not even supposed to have one. ;)
Hot ritual design tip: Take down the smoke detector before filling the room with incense.
And now for the weird post-ritual food cravings. Raw onion dipped in hummus. *coyoteing*
And, ritual complete. May I formally present: Dancer's Paw. (Zie/zir pronouns, but masc-of-center)
https://awoo.space/media/Ax5aKJDNN-YmTrWJ8SM
Not a subtoot, incidentally, just a tangent from conversation elsewhere. Mostly talking about software here. :)
Poorly designed systems can cause people to become bad actors despite their best intentions.
Imagine a narrow hallway that has doors opening into it, The hallway is so narrow that opening a door pretty much blocks the whole hallway, and the doors have no windows so you can't see who's in the hall before you open them. You can be the nicest person in the world with the best of intentions, but if you use those doors often enough, you are gonna hit someone in the face.
@kellerfuchs My rituals never really have enough structure to be worth posting. XD I'm actually working on it right now and it's basically just a list of bullet points. I'm not really one for ceremony, a lot of this is internal and improvised. ^.^;
@irisjaycomics Oh dang I didn't even know about this comic until you mentioned it and it looks so great? THANK YOU. :D
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Glowy Postfurry Gay Coyotter Rave Toy.
Responding to @mentions and not much else. 💜